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The Dumbest thing said to me this week......

Talking with a dude and he says to me -

"You have your stuff together. You are a man's fantasy but not a reality"

What the hell does that crap mean? Yeah, I asked him.

He said, "A man wouldn't know what to do with a powerful woman like you who is also so cool and down to earth."

What the hell is this fool talkin' about. Yeah, I asked that too.

He said, "We may say we want a powerful woman but too many men need for a woman to play the background. "

I'm sure his wife is so proud. :/

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Unknown said…
Yeah, that is dumb. I think that's a transparently passive aggressive attempt to present himself as humble by appearing to be self effacing...on behalf of the entire gender.
January 17, 2009 at 11:09 PM
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