My professional life has been focused on the prevention of HIV in primarily women. In this work, I've had the opportunity to talk about sexuality from all angles. As we want people to be sexually responsible, we should encourage that they are sexually satisfied. Historically, mens sexual desire has been the point of attention. What a man wants, he gets sexually through consent, oppression, or force. Men have been allowed to explore their sexual fulfillment in extreme ways. This, of course, is a level of oppression and its a social norm for many. In my talks with women about their sexual fulfillment, I've spoken with women who have never experienced "the Big O". Their sexual experiences were driven by whatever the man desired. You'd think that everyone is experiencing sex in the same way - like the last porn movie with moans and repeated orgasms. We don't teach our girls they are sexual beings. We teach them to be guard...
Journey through Lucidity